The only thing I know that I'm in love! We have a saying in Turkey like: "If both sides love each other nothing matters." but it f*cking matters! If you two have the same nationalities it's almost impossible! The only thing is not if you are trying to deal with distances but also have to have permits like a resident permit. I have never felt that it's super hard to be a national of a third country that much. I'm a well-educated lawyer and even have a master degree from different European countries but still, it's not enough to see my lover. Have you ever had that? I hope you will never ever have that. For some people, it's just about timing but for me, it's more about having a visa. You will never have enough time to be together. Of course, it makes every minute more precious but than when you leave you immediately begin to miss him/her. You are trying to find cheaper flights but it will not gonna fit his/her work schedule and you do not have a sugar daddy who will afford your trips.

I was one of the people who think like: "World is your country, select yours!" but you know what the world is NOT YOUR COUNTRY and you do NOT HAVE A SAY ABOUT IT!". If you do not have a permit you are just NOTHING AT ALL! It's just a fairy tale. While I was a child I was not believing fairy tales but I had a sense that at some point it will gonna happen in a way. I had been optimistic about everything. Not any more. I realized that some things will never ever gonna happen. I still know that if we will be in the same piece of land we could live happily ever after. So, I hate the first person who put fences on his territory and said: "This land is mine beaches, fuck off!"  (I just believe in JJR).